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    Posted at 9:33 pm by Darren Lidstrom, on March 1, 2019

    Sometimes… I think to myself, “I just don’t know what the fuck I’m doing.”


    Widower Notes n Thoughts:

    • I was forced to buy the 8 pack of soap. As a widower… even one that cleans himself regularly… it seems a little overkill. (yes, it’s non-hippie soap, but the only kind of non hippie soap Kateri would use… if forced to).

    (This is where I was gonna insert the artsy picture of the Lever 2000 eight pack sitting on Juanita… that’s the table’s name… with my cute little rubber duck in the background, but I didn’t know if you get in trouble for doing stuff like that on bloggery things!)

     

     

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    Posted in cancer, inspirational, loss, Uncategorized, widower | 2 Comments | Tagged cancer, grief, grieving, loss, marriage, mourning, widower, widower thoughts, widows |

    2 thoughts on “Widower Day 309…”

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      spiritualdragonfly

      March 2, 2019 at 2:12 pm

      Go for it!! Since my husbands death, I buy my soap 1 bar at a time

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      • Darren Lidstrom

        March 2, 2019 at 2:28 pm

        For a while there, I was buying the same soap Kateri would get… the kind sold individually at the co-op with fancy little ribbons holding the hand drawn labels on. I guess that’s not happening for a while!

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