My mom died… and for the second time in my life… I feel like I woke up to a different world.
Thirty Days of Mo(u)rning
A widower at forty-two. What Kateri gave me… what cancer took away… and how I'm coping with life from the woods of Vermont
My mom died… and for the second time in my life… I feel like I woke up to a different world.
Thirty Days of Mo(u)rning 
20 thoughts on “Sunday, February 27, 2022… 12:22a.m….”
Rhonda lee
Hugs💜
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Darren Lidstrom
Thank you for the hugs, Rhonda..!
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Elizabeth
I wonderful picture of mom and boy. I send you much love and comfort.
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Darren Lidstrom
Probably one of my favorite pics. Thanks for the love, Elizabeth..!.. and for being here for me. Much love back to ya.
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Christy
Darren,
My heart aches for you. When our lives are overun with sadness and sorrow finding just a moment of peace can be a challenge. (As you know). You gave your mom peace in her last days, know that.
Sending love and hugs
Christy
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Darren Lidstrom
Thanks Christy. Although it is heart crushing, there is a sort of peace that comes along when almost five years of worrying about her goes away with her passing. Much love to you!
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Maggie
Oh, Darren. I am so sorry. I know how hard this is. I also know there are no words that can relieve the sorrow. I send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You gave your Mom the ultimate gift of your presence and as a Mom I know that was the greatest gift of all. My heart breaks for you.
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Darren Lidstrom
Although I’m in the heart crushing/emotional time right now, I can still recognize how beautiful of a moment her passing was. I was holding her arm while my sister held her hand and my father was at the foot of her bed. I feel fortunate to have the memory of her passing that I do… and a ton of love and support from some wonderful people like you. Thank you, Maggie.
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Maggie
Sending you all a great deal of love, Darren.
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Lauren
So very sorry for your loss. I understand how difficult this is. It was the greatest gift you gave her being there. Sending love and comfort to you and your family.
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Darren Lidstrom
Thanks Lauren. I’m so glad that I had the opportunity to be there with her for the last month of her life… right till the end. She was surrounded by the love of her family… and we even had some fun and put a lego tractor together…! Thanks for the love… and much love back to you.
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Lauren
As you know already grief comes in waves as it wants. Being there for her was a great gift for both of you. I’ll keep you in my prayers. Virtual hugs coming your way.
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Jerusha
I love you, I’m thinking of you. I am incredibly sorry for your loss and if you need anything, let me know.
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Darren Lidstrom
Thank you for the love, Jerusha. I look forward to sliding you some bacon on the downlow in the not so distant future…! Much love back to you. I can’t tell you how much it means to me to be in a place with so many supportive, loving, and wonderful people.
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Gen
I’m so sorry Darren 😞 Big hugs from home💜
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Darren Lidstrom
Thank you Gen. I’m so happy that I had the opportunity to be in Idaho for a month to be with my mom, but I’m so glad that I have my little home to heal in… in Vermont. Much love to you guys.
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jennasnanny04
Oh Darren, so VERY sorry. I know there are no words of comfort. Just know I’m sending love and sympathy and understanding.
Nancy
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Darren Lidstrom
Thank you, Nancy. I found comfort in every word you wrote. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Much love back to you.
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jennasnanny04
I’m glad Darren. It’s hard to relay deep feelings on tge internet but you do an incredible job. I am not a writer and have trouble expressing in words but I appreciate that the comfort and care came thru. Take care of yourself.
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