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  • Widower Day 581… my birthday!

    Posted at 1:16 pm by Darren Lidstrom, on November 24, 2019

    I wanted to do a bloggery at some point this weekend because Friday the 22nd was Kateri’s monthly death date anniversary… and today is my birthday… yay! I took yesterday off and it’s been a good couple of days so far… a lot of thinking, relaxing, and remembering. But I don’t feel like throwing myself into an emotional three hours of writing about crap, so this morning… I made a video on the way back to bed from getting my Birthday Morning Coffee… and never got back into bed.

    Widower Notes n Thoughts:

    • It’s been heartwarming receiving little messages and phone calls from friends and family wishing me a Happy Birthday! You…. are awesome!… and thank-you!

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    Author: Darren Lidstrom

    Posted in loss, music, videos, Widow, widower | 11 Comments | Tagged birthday, grieving, guitar, mourning, music, sunday morning, thirtydaysofmorning, videos, widower, widower thoughts, widowerbirthday, widows |

    11 thoughts on “Widower Day 581… my birthday!”

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      joanna

      November 24, 2019 at 1:51 pm

      Happy Birthday I hope you have a great day

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      • Darren Lidstrom

        November 25, 2019 at 7:49 am

        Thanks! It wasn’t too shabby!

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      Maggie

      November 24, 2019 at 2:11 pm

      Reblogged this on From Cave Walls and commented:
      If you have a moment, please stop and wish fellow-blogger, Darren, a Happy Birthday.

      I am not quite sure how I stumbled on Darren’s blog, but I am glad I did. He has been blogging about his life since the loss of his dear wife Kateri. He has shown all the colors of the emotion that follows the loss of someone you love. I have shared his grief and cheered on his happiness.

      I am sure he would love more followers, but if nothing else, maybe you could stop by and drop a birthday wish or two.

      HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DARREN!

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      • Darren Lidstrom

        November 25, 2019 at 7:50 am

        Oh my gosh Maggie… you are fantastic! Thanks for sharing my blog and for the birthday wishes!… it was a good one!

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        • Maggie

          November 25, 2019 at 8:43 am

          I am so glad to hear that, Darren. I was happy to share your blog and wish you many good days ahead.

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      lssattitudeofgratitude

      November 24, 2019 at 3:03 pm

      I hope you have a great birthday filled with warm memories and warm food and warm friends.

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      • Darren Lidstrom

        November 25, 2019 at 7:54 am

        Thanks! It was a good day filled with talking to friends and family… loud music… pizza… and cake! All good things!

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        • lssattitudeofgratitude

          November 25, 2019 at 3:50 pm

          Sounds like a special day. I am happy for you.

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      beetleypete

      November 24, 2019 at 5:16 pm

      Happy Birthday, Darren. Relish those fond memories as you enjoy your day.
      Best wishes, Pete.

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      • Darren Lidstrom

        November 25, 2019 at 8:02 am

        Thanks Pete! And thanks for stopping by! The day/weekend has been a bit of balancing the fond memories with… well… living in the present! It’s been a good one!

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      Maggie

      November 25, 2019 at 8:48 am

      Darren, My blogging friend, Elizabeth (https://elizabethslaughter.com/) left this comment on my reblog. I wanted to make sure you saw it.

      “ Happy Birthday. Maggie sent me over and I am glad she did. Was your wife named after the Mohawk woman Kateri Tekakwitha?”

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